Cheater sent me an email the other day- one of those great three line water testing ones regarding a concert coming to town and if I knew about it or not. I do not understand why people do these things.
It’s easily been two years since we were dating, and in fact because he has wonderful timing as always he happened to email me on the two year anniversary of the week he was fucking around on me while out of town. I debated several ways to deal with this little occurance, as this is not the first time I’ve recieved some type of random communication from him but I sure as hell would like it if it were the last.
So because of my general frustration anyway, and because I just want him to get that he will never be included in my life again no matter how long it has been I unleashed. What I sent back to him was designed to crush him, and to drive home the point that I thought I’d made to him years ago- we will not be friends, if we pass each other in public I will be civil and maybe even cordial but I have no intention of being a friend to you.
This isn’t because I am still mad with him, or holding some type of grudge honestly at this point I just feel nothing about him. I just choose who I do and do not include in my life based largely on the kind of person they are. I choose to not be involved with people who lie consistently, I choose to not be involved with people who make excuses for their actions over and over again.
It dawned on me that he is the exact replica of RFW who I personally find morally repulsive. I think the big thing is that they both do whatever the hell they want with no concern of the affects of it, while lying all along the way. Then when they’re exposed for what they are they both have a million excuses- It’s not my fault, I was/am sick being number one on the list. Funnily enough as “sick” as they both are and have been neither of them attempted to get any kind of treatment to fix what ails them.
After the crushing blow email I think I took care of his random contact tendencies. Something tells me I won’t be hearing from him again thankfully.
